We all seek happiness because we think that when we are happy, we have everything. When joy fills our souls, life lights up, our hearts open up and our hands stretch out. On the contrary, when our soul is darkened, when sadness pervades our lives, everything becomes more difficult. Where and how to find happiness?
Where to find happiness
We often seek happiness outside of ourselves. Of course, the joy that comes from the outside brings us joy as well. Dinner with friends, a successful exam, a new experience…
Unfortunately, these are ephemeral moments that will not last long. It would be good for you if you can remember them with nostalgia.
However, there is also a type of joy that does not depend on external events, it does not have elements that have triggered it, in short, it does not depend on anything.
It can be said that this is a free happiness, as Jean Klein defined it, namely a form of joy without object. To quote some of his words: “spontaneous state of interior silence that we can open ourselves to our true nature: the ‘I Am’ of pure consciousness.”
It is a joy without object because it does not come from the world, it has another origin. This happiness comes from pure existence, from our being in the here and now.
How to find happiness
We knew this joy very well when we were children. Then, slowly, growing up, we miss it.
Sometimes it returns when we do not have worries, we are particularly relaxed and in a good mood.
But if you can transcend everyday life, stay silent and focus on your breathing even for a few minutes, you find yourself and the essence of life in the here and now.
Among the positive affirmations, you can find the affirmation “I am” that does not mean identifying with oneself as a person with name, surname, date of birth, etc.
Transcending yourself means stripping yourself of your individual identity so that you can quickly experience the happiness of your pure being.