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Practicing Mindful Eating and Self-Compassion

When I sit in cafés, I use to watch people around me. Most are either on their phones or hurriedly eating their lunch, eyes barely focused on what is in front of them. It struck me how disconnected we’ve become from the act of eating. Our meals meant to be a time of restoration and pleasure, have become just another task to cross off the list.

Food often becomes an afterthought, something we grab between meetings or quickly consume while scrolling through our phones. For many, the relationship with food has become transactional, something that satisfies hunger but rarely nourishes the soul. Yet food holds the potential for so much more—it can be a source of joy, comfort, and connection. To reclaim that deeper relationship, we need to turn our attention to mindful eating and self-compassion.

The Lost Art of Eating Mindfully

Mindful eating is an antidote to this rush. It invites us to slow down and reconnect with the sensory experience of food. This isn’t just about eating slower, though of course that helps; it’s about being fully present. When we take a bite, we should focus on the texture, the flavors, and the colors on the plate. We could ask ourselves: What does this taste like? How does it make me feel? It’s an act of curiosity and engagement that deepens our awareness of what we consume.

The Practice of Food Mindfulness

Practicing mindful eating requires intention, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are a few steps to get started:

  • Start small. You don’t have to overhaul your entire eating routine overnight. Begin with one meal a day or even one part of a meal. Take a few minutes to savor your food without distractions.
  • Engage your senses. Before you take a bite, look at your food. Notice the colors, the arrangement. When you eat, feel the texture on your tongue, the burst of flavors. Chew slowly, allowing your senses to fully absorb the experience.
  • Listen to your body. Often, we eat out of habit or because it’s time, not because we’re hungry. Pause before a meal and check in with yourself. Are you really hungry? How does your body feel? Learning to recognize true hunger and fullness is a key part of mindful eating.
  • Be grateful. Reflect on the journey your food has taken to arrive at your plate. This sense of gratitude can elevate the experience, helping you appreciate every bite.

Rebuilding Through Self-Compassion

But mindful eating is only part of the equation. To rebuild a healthy relationship with food, we must also practice self-compassion. For many, food carries emotional weight, guilt, shame, or anxiety. These emotions often stem from unrealistic standards we set for ourselves or pressures from society.

One key to shifting this narrative is treating ourselves with kindness. If we overeat, it’s common to spiral into self-criticism. We tell ourselves we have no willpower. But it’s okay to eat more if we don’t do it often. Therefore, what if, instead of judgment, we offered ourselves understanding?

  • Challenge the inner critic. The next time you catch yourself feeling guilty about food, pause. Ask where that voice is coming from. Is it societal pressure, or perhaps old beliefs about what it means to be healthy? Replace that negative self-talk with a gentle reminder that one meal does not define you.
  • Celebrate progress, not perfection. Shifting your relationship with food won’t happen overnight. There will be days when it feels easy, and others when old habits resurface. The key is to focus on progress rather than perfection. Each mindful moment counts, even if it’s just a single breath between bites.

Embracing Food as a Source of Joy

Ultimately, rebuilding our relationship with food is about more than what we eat. It’s about how we approach food, both with mindfulness and compassion. When we shift from seeing food as something that controls us to something we engage with joyfully and without fear, we begin to heal that relationship.

Eating shouldn’t be a source of stress but one of comfort and connection, a way to nourish not just the body but the mind and the soul.

So the next time you sit down for a meal, take a deep breath. Let go of distractions and be present. Approach your plate with curiosity and kindness, and slowly, you’ll start to rebuild your relationship with food, one mindful bite at a time.

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Why Eating Well Will Let You Spend Fully Resting Nights

It’s well-known that what we eat influences the quality of our sleep. It is even more important to eat well in the evening, because we go to sleep afterwards. Eating out a hamburger with friends coming out from work, eating a whole tablet of chocolate in front of the television, or eating too much on coming back late from work, are not good habits. 

Why don’t we sleep well after having eaten late in the evening, or having eaten a lot or to having eaten a fat or sweet food? Which are the effects on health and on wellbeing if you sleep badly? Which are the recommendations in order to sleep well and wake up completely restored?

Let’s see.

Why you shouldn’t eat late
  1. The body accumulates more fat. Recent studies have compared people eating late in the evening some food and people eating earlier the same kind of food. The former show more fat in their blood test.
  2. This also represents a cardio-vascular risk for those people who would eat just before going to bed and after 10 p.m..
  3. You may have some cramps or refluxes because of the lying down position in bed and therefore you may not sleep.
  4. A bad digestion may wake you up during the night and therefore it may alter the quality of your sleep.

When you don’t sleep well, the whole body will suffer and you may become nervous, be in a bad mood and may not be able to focus well. Besides, sleep also regulates our hormonal balance. The hunger hormone (the ghrelin) and the satiety hormone (the leptin) are produced while sleeping. If you don’t sleep well or don’t sleep enough, the two hormones are unbalanced: more ghrelin than leptin is produced. Then, you will be prone to eating more to compensate for the lack of sleep or the bad sleep. You will eat more and sleep worse, in short you will find yourself in a vicious circle.

The stress hormone (cortisol) and the sleeping hormone (melatonin) are also regulated by sleep. If they get unbalanced, the whole quality of your life will suffer.

Finally, the hemoglobin becomes rarer. This antibody protects the organism against bacteria, viruses and some toxins, therefore it is needed for a good immunity. As it is also produced during the sleep, you may become more vulnerable if you don’t sleep well. That’s why fatigue or stress can provoke illnesses.

In the long term, irregular sleep or lack of sleep will increase the risk of depression, obesity, cardiac illnesses and diabetes. It is therefore fundamental to sleep well and also try to pay attention to what you eat in the evening.

Try to privilege some foods rich in tryptophan and vitamin B2, because they make sleeping easier. The tryptophan, needed to produce the melatonin (the sleeping hormone) can be found in bananas, tuna, chickpeas, dates and milk. The vitamin B2, that also makes sleeping easier, can be found in all dairy products (milk, yoghurt, cheese), green beans, tomatoes, mushrooms and in asparagus.


Recommendations for a healthy evening meal:
  1. eating at least three hours before going to bed;
  2. eating slowly, without stress;
  3. eating up to when you start feeling full, not more;
  4. eating with moderation food as pasta, potatoes, cheese;
  5. avoiding sauces, excessively salty or excessively sweet food;
  6. avoiding alcoholic and energising drinks and other stimulants like caffeine;
  7. it would be better to avoid smoking too;
  8. sugar gives immediately available energy, therefore avoid also sweet drinks, sweets in general, above all if you would eat them in front of the television.
Do you feel hungry before going to bed?

Someone said that it would be better going to bed being a bit hungry, also your shape would benefit. But if you cannot really make it, then eat a light yoghurt with no sugar, some walnuts, drink some warm milk or an herbal infusion. The good old chamomile is an excellent option too.

Ready for this challenge?

Why A Little Fat Is Beautiful

On Sundays, I usually go to Pilates. Last week, a lady I haven’t seen for a while approached me and started to talk, explaining to me why she has not come for the last month. Her story begins by saying that she is not fat enough. It doesn’t seem to me, she is not fat, that’s true, but never before have I heard of someone complaining of being too thin, usually it’s the other way, people complain because they are too fat.

Then she starts telling me her problem. Because of her thinness, the bones pierce the skin and come out. Her coccyx has just healed and she suffered tremendous pain. I am speechless, then the Pilates class kicks off and she stops talking.

I begin to reflect on my two extra pounds, on the fact that I wanted to have a session of cryolipolysis, and on the fact that I do not like my body a little “round”. Then I think about the lady, her problem, and I tell myself that I think I will keep my two extra pounds. I started to do some research on the benefits of having a little extra fat, so to find a justification for keeping my two extra pounds (I have to find a good reason not to lose these two pounds, right?)

First of all, you need to know your BMI, Body Mass Index, and mine is okay, my weight is normal.

Once I have established that I am not overweight, I go on with the search to look for possible damages that an excessive thinness may cause.

First of all, the adipose tissue plays important functions, including the production of hormonal substances, such as leptin (the satiety hormone), which has a role, among other things, in the regulation of energy balance and fertility. The reduction of adipose tissue below 20% in women can lead to menstrual irregularities, for example.

Let’s see now other risks associated to an excessive thinness:

  1. Early menopause. It has been found that being overweight may trigger an early menopause.
  2. Osteoporosis. Even the bones can be compromised. Above all, elderly people can experience the fragility of the bones. A certain percentage of fat mass, or even better muscle mass, can act as a protection to the bones.
  3. An insufficient dietary intake causes the body to trigger a “saving” situation with various consequences on the hormones such as the reduction of the growth hormone, or the increase in blood sugar because insulin is reduced.
  4. Muscle strength. Reduction of muscle strength, weakness, anemia.
  5. Infections. Underweight is also associated with an increase in infections due to the lowering of immune defenses.

Watch out! I’m not telling you that you have to fatten excessively to become obese, because then you would have other problems, like cardiovascular diseases. What I am saying is that you do not have to lose weight excessively.

Calculate your BMI and try to keep it over time by eating healthy and regularly, not forgetting that doing the right amount of exercise is just as important.

These are the best things you can do for yourself.

9 Tips to Live a Better Life

Good habits and good mood have a close connection with good health and well-being.

Here are 9 tips that will help you find a bit of tranquility, improve your balance and get closer to the idea of ​​happiness that best suits you.

  1. Keep moving. Physical activity is one of the tools that most benefits our body. It can significantly reduce stress, control cholesterol levels, help you lose weight, oxygenate body tissues and eliminate toxins through sweating. In addition, it allows the development of endorphins that produce brain pleasure and decrease joint pain. If you can, don’t take the elevator but take the stairs, walk to work, or ride a bicycle. These are all activities you can do without necessarily going to the gym. Not only will your body benefit, but the environment will also be thankful.
  2. Improve nutrition. Pay attention to what you consume daily. Take time for each meal and choose healthy menus. Eat balanced and add fruit, vegetables and legumes to your diet. Try new recipes and prepare differently flavoured meals to discover new things. Avoid eating junk food, because it contains simple sugars and carbohydrates, which contribute to the slowdown of metabolism and obstruct the arteries. Also avoid fatty meals too.
  3. Drink plenty of water. The consumption of water, tea and juice allows you to eliminate free radicals. In addition, hydration is good for the skin, which will thus remain beautiful and healthy.
  4. Do something you enjoy. Take time to do an activity that you like during the day, which makes you relax, such as doing manual work, cooking, reading or learning to play a musical instrument.
  5. Disconnect yourself for a full day. Make an effort, put social media and cell phone aside for a day. It’s good to focus on yourself every now and then.
  6. Spend time outdoors. Walking in the forest, having a picnic, spending time outdoors are activities that make you reconnect with nature as well as being an opportunity to breathe some fresh air.
  7. Volunteering. Solidarity is one of the paths most used by people who seek tranquility and who want to be at peace with themselves. Good deeds will affect your life in a positive way.
  8. Stay positive. Look at things with pleasure, optimism and positive energy. Frustration brings negative consequences in life.
  9. Share moments with friends. Having a coffee with friends, talking about nothing, will help you feel much better.

What do you think? will you adopt one of these new habits?