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Senbazuru: How 1000 Origami Cranes Can Let Happiness Unfold

Folding 1000 origami cranes is believed to bring good fortune. Today, this ancient Japanese practice has spread around the world, embodying faith, hope and peace. 

According to an ancient Japanese belief, folding 1000 paper cranes can bring good fortune in your life. According to the legend, the crane may live for a thousand years; each paper crane represents one year in the majestic bird’s life. After you complete 1000 origami cranes, your wish will become truth. The 1000 origami cranes suspended in the air are often made by groups of people who join forces to achieve this goal. This tradition often supports a good cause or a special occasion like a marriage. The latter is popular with the Japanese American community, which assigns meanings to different colours: red is love, white is purity, gold is wealth, green is health, yellow is creativity, blue is loyalty, and purple is spirituality.

The custom has spread all over the world thanks to Sadako Sasaki, who was just two years old when the atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima. She developed leukaemia and, inspired by the senbazuru story, began folding cranes – first for her health, then, when she realised that she would not survive, for world peace. She made 644 origami, and her family and classmates completed the task and folded the missing cranes in her honour. To remember Sadako and the other children victims of the nuclear bomb, the Children’s Peace Monument has been built within the Hiroshima’s Peace Memorial Park. Around 10 million paper cranes are sent to the monument from all around the world every year – proof of how Sadako’s message of peace has widely flown, and an example of how one person can make a difference.

Enjoy a Moment of Paper-folding

The beauty of origami is not only a practice. Ultimately, you will make something personal that you can give to someone you care about. Moreover, not only you can share the physical gift of origami, but also you can use the making process to think of your beloved ones.

What do you think about it? Would you try it?

La leggenda di senbazuru, i mille origami a forma di gru

Realizzare mille gru in origami porterebbe fortuna e prosperità. Oggi, questa antica tradizione giapponese si è diffusa in tutto il mondo ed è diventata un simbolo di speranza e di pace.

Secondo una tradizione giapponese, fare mille gru di carta porterebbe fortuna. Secondo la leggenda, la gru è un uccello che vive mille anni. Ogni gru di carta rappresenta perciò un anno della vita di questo uccello. Dopo aver realizzato mille gru d’origami, il tuo desiderio sarà realizzato.

Generalmente questa tradizione è volta a sostenere una buona causa o un matrimonio. Questa cerimonia è molto comune nella comunità giapponese degli Stati Uniti, che attribuisce significati diversi ai colori: il rosso è l’amore, il bianco la purezza, l’oro la ricchezza, il verde la salute, il giallo la creatività, il blu la lealtà e il viola la spiritualità.

Questa tradizione si è diffusa nel mondo grazie a Sadako Sasaki, che aveva solamente due anni quando la bomba atomica colpí Hiroshima. Malata di leucemia, Sadako si ispira alla leggenda delle mille gru e le vuole realizzare in origami. Comincia a formulare dei desideri di guarigione, poi, quando si rende conto che non vivrá a lungo, augura pace al mondo. Lei riuscì a realizzarne solo 644, ma la sua famiglia e i suoi amici finiranno l’opera e piegarono 1000 gru in suo onore. Per commemorare Sadako e le migliaia di bambini vittime di Hiroshima, il Monumento della Pace dei Bambini è stato costruito all’interno del Memorial della Pace di Hiroshima. Ogni anno, circa 10 milioni di gru di carta vengono inviati al Monumento della Pace da tutto il mondo, dando così senso al messaggio di pace di Sadako.

Prova a fare anche tu gli origami

La bellezza dell’origami risiede nel creare noi stessi un oggetto da donare a una persona a noi cara. Questo atto di creazione e di generosità permette di connetterci alle persone che contano per noi.

Che ne pensi, ci proverai?

The Challenges of Communicating Across Cultures

I live and work in an real multicultural environment.

The city where I live is Brussels that hosts about 150 different nationalities. The place I work with is the European Commission where all the 28 European Union nationalities are represented.

Sometimes it is difficult to communicate to each other, as you have to pay much attention to other’s sensitivity, emotions and feelings.

Day after day, I learned that each culture has their own approach to communication. 

I found a very interesting the book of the anthropologist Edward Hall, Beyond Culture. He identified the importance of context in communication and raised the attention on the “invisible” type of communication, by which groups of people understand and interpret the world.

The framework proposed by Hall for approaching intercultural communication is high-context and low-context cultures, which refer to the values cultures place on indirect and direct communication.

It is important to note that no culture is completely high-context or low-context, since all societies contain at least some parts that are both high and low. For example, the United States is a low-context culture while doing business, but during family gatherings tend to be high-context.

Let us see now the main features of the two cultural types.

High-Context Cultures

A high-context culture relies on implicit communication and nonverbal cues. In high-context communication, a message cannot be understood without a great deal of background information. Asian, African, Arab, central European and Latin American cultures are generally considered to be high-context cultures.

With people belonging mainly to high-context cultures, you may encounter the following:

  1. Misunderstanding when exchanging information
  2. Impression of a lack of information
  3. Large amount of information is provided in a non-verbal manner, e.g. gestures, pauses, facial expressions
  4. Emphasis on long term relationships and loyalty
  5. Unwritten rules that are taken for granted but can easily be missed. 

Low-Context Cultures

A low-context culture relies on explicit communication. In low-context communication, more of the information in a message is spelled out and defined. Cultures like the Germans, Scandinavians, Americans and Australians are generally considered to be low-context cultures.

Dealing with people belonging mainly to low-context cultures, you may find the following:

  1. All meaning is explicitly provided in the message itself
  2. Extensive background information and explanations are provided verbally to avoid misunderstandings
  3. People tend to have short-term relationships
  4. People follow rules and standards closely.

To avoid “diplomatic incidents”, I try to pay much attention to my interlocutor languages and “imitate” them using the technique of the mirror, namely, repeating the body language, the type of words they use, how they overall handle the conversation.

What about you? Which culture do you think you belong to? Which technique do you use to better communicate across cultures?

A Poem: Die Slowly by Martha Medeiros

He who becomes the slave of habit,
who follows the same routines every day,
who never changes brand,
who does not risk and change the color of his clothes,
who does not talk to people he doesn’t know
dies slowly.


He who makes television his guru
dies slowly.


He or she who shuns passion,
who prefers black on white,
and the dots on the “i” to a whirlpool of emotions,
precisely those that recover the gleam of the eyes,
smiles from the yawns,
hearts from the stumbling and feelings
dies slowly.


He or she who does not turn things topsy-turvy,
who is unhappy at work,
who does not risk certainty for uncertainty,
to thus follow a dream,
those who do not forego sound advice at least once in their lives,
die slowly.


He who does not travel,
who does not read,
who can not hear music,
who does not find grace in himself,
dies slowly.


He who slowly destroys his self love,
who does not allow himself to be helped,
who spends days on end complaining about his own bad luck,
about the rain that never stops,
dies slowly.


He or she who abandon a project before starting it,
who fail to ask questions on subjects he doesn’t know,
he or she who don’t reply when they are asked something they do know,
die slowly.


Let’s avoid death in small doses,
reminding oneself that being alive requires an effort far greater than the simple fact of breathing.


Only a burning patience will lead
to the attainment of a splendid happiness.

Martha Medeiros

Lentamente muore – poesia di Martha Medeiros

Lentamente muore
chi diventa schiavo dell’abitudine,
ripetendo ogni giorno
gli stessi percorsi,
chi non cambia la marcia,
chi non rischia e cambia colore dei vestiti,
chi non parla a chi non conosce.

Muore lentamente
chi evita una passione,
chi preferisce il nero sul bianco
e i puntini sulle “i” piuttosto che
un insieme di emozioni,
proprio quelle che fanno brillare gli occhi,
quelle che fanno di uno sbadiglio un sorriso,
quelle che fanno battere il cuore davanti all’errore e ai sentimenti.

Lentamente muore
chi non capovolge il tavolo,
chi è infelice sul lavoro
chi non rischia la certezza per l’incertezza
per inseguire un sogno,
chi non si permette almeno una volta nella vita di fuggire ai consigli
sensati.

Lentamente muore
chi non viaggia,
chi non legge,
chi non ascolta musica,
chi non trova grazia in se stesso.

Muore lentamente
chi distrugge l’amor proprio
chi non si lascia aiutare;
chi passa i giorni a lamentarsi della propria sfortuna
o della pioggia incessante.

Lentamente muore
chi abbandona un progetto prima di iniziarlo,
chi non fa domande sugli argomenti che non conosce,
chi non risponde quando gli chiedono qualcosa che conosce.

Evitiamo la morte a piccole dosi
ricordando sempre che essere vivo
richiede uno sforzo di gran lunga maggiore del semplice fatto di
respirare.

Soltanto l’ardente pazienza porterà al raggiungimento
di una splendida felicità.

Martha Medeiros

9 Reasons to Practise Mindfulness

Today we speak a lot about Mindfulness. Do we really know what it is and why it is useful?

Let’s start with a small definition. Mindfulness is a mental training that makes you aware of your actions and bring focus on what you are doing in the present moment. It is a concept taken from Buddhism but it has lost the religious component and it is not limited to meditation, though meditation is part of Mindfulness.

Today’s life is sometime difficult and often very busy. We find ourselves more and more exhausted and breathless. Our mind is forced to focus on several tasks at the same time (the so called multitasking), at the expenses of our mental and physical well-being.

Practising Mindfulness helps us for sure with finding a bit of quietness and copying with events’ life differently, both in the work environment and at personal level. Mindfulness helps us with finding our own human and spiritual intimacy.

Practising regularly Mindfulness has a positive effect on stress and anxiety and it also helps us in developing useful mental skills that build capacity for:

  1. Focus
  2. Mental Clarity and Agility
  3. Collaboration
  4. Creativity and Innovation
  5. Emotional Intelligence
  6. Empathy and Compassion
  7. Resilience
  8. Happiness
  9. Overall Well-Being.

Try a simple exercise: eat slowly a fruit, trying to taste it fully, to understand the consistency and find out the feelings it gives you. If you eat like that once a day, you will be on the good path for being mindful!