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Revitalize Your Health – Embracing a Month Without Added Sugar

Embark on a transformative journey for your health with the “Month Without Added Sugar” challenge. Drawing inspiration from the well-known “month without alcohol” and “month without tobacco,” this endeavour encourages you to embrace a month free from the clutches of added sugar.

These insidious additives, devoid of nutritional value, are prominent culprits behind the surge in obesity, diabetes, cardiovascular diseases, and various other diseases. This challenge, with dual goals, sets the stage for personal success and collective exploration.

Primarily, it beckons as a personal odyssey, inviting you to conquer your own limits, experiment with your habits, and cultivate a keen awareness of your sugar intake. Secondly, it extends a collective invitation, encouraging you to engage in a shared experiment that weaves a richer fabric of experiences and insights.

Gather a cohort of likeminded friends or colleagues, and you’re all set to plunge into this enlightening venture. The collective initiation of the challenge fosters camaraderie and resilience — essential tools in the face of cravings. Together, you will engage in thoughtful discussions, exchange experiences, and inspire one another throughout this transformative month-long journey.

Remember, initiating this odyssey on your own can be invigorating, but rallying others to the cause amplifies the impact. During moments when you contemplate wavering, your fellow challengers will serve as beacons of encouragement, propelling you forward.

Reflecting on my personal journey with the challenge, the initial week posed formidable frustrations. Yet, the subsequent weeks brought forth an array of rewards:

A daily uplift in mood.
Reduced inclination towards snacking, thanks to prolonged satiety.
An exponential surge in energy levels.

The surge in energy is particularly noteworthy and deserving of special attention. After a sugar-free month, I felt replenished with vitality. This resurgence was a rejuvenating tonic, especially after a period of intense work preceding a well-deserved break.

However, it’s important to exercise caution and avoid always demonizing all forms of sugar. Curtailing added sugar intake is pivotal for health, yet the occasional indulgence should not be shunned. Savouring a slice of cake on a leisurely Sunday afternoon with friends becomes a delightful respite —nourishing both mood and overall well-being.

Basically, self-care remains paramount. The challenge’s summons is not about perfection but about fostering a deeper bond with oneself.

So, are you prepared to embrace this transformative undertaking?

The summer’s warmth ushers in the ideal ambiance to embark on this journey. As the heat diminishes our appetite, the “Month Without Added Sugar” challenge is poised to unfold. Carve out a month for yourself, your health, and a rejuvenated outlook on life.

A Zen Story – The Quality of Our Effort

Do you know the Zen story of the young man who crosses Japan to reach the school of a famous martial arts master?

When he arrives at the dojo, the teacher asks him:

“What can I do for you?”

The boy replies: “I want to study with you and become the best fighter in the whole region.”

“How long will it take me?“

“10 years at least,” the teacher replies. “10 years is a very long time – replies the boy – What if I study two times more than all your students?“

“20 years then” – the master replies.

The boy, puzzled, replies “and if I train all day and night long with all of myself? “

“30 years,” the teacher replies.

At this point the young man replies: “How is it possible that the more I say that I will work hard, the longer it will take me?“

“The answer is simple – concludes the master – “when you have one of your eyes fixed on the goal, you have only the other one left to find the way. »

How would you interpret this story?

Personally I consider it an important reminder of how it is not necessarily a more intense effort that can help us get sooner to the destination we have in mind, but rather an attention to the quality of our effort.
Doing better step by step than trying to do more by burning down the steps will put less stress and anxiety in our lives.

It’s a bit like when we train our body. Practising intensive sports from time to time will only serve to traumatize your body. While a constant but carefully calibrated effort allows us not only to achieve lasting results, but to make each step of the journey much more enjoyable.

How could you reduce the intensity of the effort by improving its quality?

How to Avoid Disastrous Results

The story you are about to read contains a very interesting moral, especially in light of the importance that our society gives to physical appearance. Here is how you can avoid disastrous results.

The Dove and the Crow.

On a beautiful sunny spring day, a dove with white feathers flew through the forest, and she stopped on a branch.

And what bird are you? A crow asked. I am a dove. Looking around she saw a flock of strange black birds: some flew, others rested like her on the branches of the trees. – What strange birds. They are black as carbon! – thought the dove. Suddenly one of them flew on the branch in front of her.

You are as pale as a dead man – said the crow. But everyone tells me that my feathers are snow-white – replied the dove. Don’t make me laugh! Look at us instead. Everyone admires us precisely for our beautiful feathers. The dove felt mortified: she felt different from all of them!

The dove decided then to get her feathers dirty. Now I really want to see what that obnoxious bird will say – she thought. There was a puddle full of mud nearby. So, without thinking for a moment she flew away, glided over the water and began to turn in the mud, dirtying the white feathers with black. Finally she was black too!

Unfortunately, at that moment a hungry wolf arrived, and targeted the dove. The poor thing was not able to fly because the feathers were all stuck by the mud, and she ended up being the wolf’s lunch.

Moral: Everyone should be happy with their appearance. Do not try to imitate others because the result might be disastrous.

Have you ever tried to be a dove?

back view photo of white dove perched on palm tree branch — Dove – Photo by M Sidharda on Pexels.com

How To Use the Pareto’s Principle

Towards the end of the 19th century, a group of economists from the University of Lausanne in Switzerland studied the social inequalities in Europe. Analysing the tax data of several European countries, they found out that in each of them about 20% of the population owned 80% of the wealth.

This discovery was a real springboard for the career of an economist, Vilfredo Pareto, who gave his name to a principle, the Pareto principle, also known as the law of 20-80.

Some examples of the application of this principle:

• to optimize production, some industries in Japan focus on 20% of the causes that generate 80% of production problems;

• customer services of most companies focus on 20% of customers who generate 80% of turnover;

• finance professionals agree that 20% of their investments represent 80% of the benefits.

What does this principle make us understand? The message of Pareto’s principle is that we need to focus on 20% of the actions that lead us to 80% of the results.

In practice, we must focus on high value-added actions because they are the ones that make us move forward.

This principle is very important because it deals with a precious resource: time.

To avoid being stuck on a goal and slowly losing sight of it, it would be beneficial to use this perspective (20-80).

However, how can we identify what are the essential things to our goal? Moreover, how to choose high valuable actions?

Try to answer these two questions for each action you have planned but are hesitating to take:

1. Is this action vital in moving me towards my goal?

2. Am I the only one who can do this action?

The first question allows you to separate essential actions from those that can wait.

The second allows you to identify what are the actions that others can do in your place and that, therefore, you can delegate.

Once this is done, you will know 20% of the actions you need to take to advance towards achieving your goal.

Now you could estimate the time required for each action but it is not ideal, because you would end up putting it on your “to-do-list” and you could continue to shift the priority order. Therefore, in the end you would have wasted some time.

Once again you have to ask yourself some questions:

1. What problems are stopping you from really moving forward with your goals?

2. What do you need to do to solve these problems?

3. What are the elements that allow you to understand if the problems have been solved?

You will be surprised to see how well these questions work. The 20-80 rule allows you to focus on actions that have a visible and direct impact. You will see that they will soon become a habit to you, and that you will use them every time you feel stuck with something.

Do you think that the Pareto’s principle is useful for progressing with your goals?

August Blues

I look forward August with impatience as for me it represents the top of summer time, that is my favourite period of the year. July prepares myself to August that comes full of expectations and good intentions.

However, at the end of the summer I find myself dealing with what I have actually achieved and I am not always happy with the results.

It happens that often my expectations are misaligned with reality and this causes me frustration and distress that reaches its top at the end of the summer. The idea of not having enjoyed the summer period as I wanted and the thought of the “going back to work” around the corner might turn the last days of vacation into moments of anxiety and suffering.

The August melancholy is known as “August Blues”, the boredom and the dissatisfaction that may become a real malaise of the season.

Therefore, this year I decided to anticipate it and I identified four suggestions so to avoid being overwhelmed by it:

spending time outdoors: natural light, fresh air and nature help psychophysical well-being and allow us to look at situation with more detachment and serenity;
thinking about the positive moments: we all have had for sure beautiful experiences that brought us some benefits, even though small ones. They will help us to add value to the time spent. Sometimes our mind plays with us and makes us not very objective;
scheduling your time: we are all different and there are people who can go back to work straight after their flight back home but there are others who need some time to recover from the shock of returning home from holidays. Listen to your needs and plan your time accordingly;
last but not least, show awareness: learning to recognize the first signs of your distress will help you to manage it better and to prevent it from overwhelming you.

What about you? Have you ever experienced the August Blues?